Napa Valley Girls Trip Itinerary (3 Days): The Ultimate Weekend Getaway with Wineries, Hotels & Food (Updated for 2026)

Written by Wayne Kowalski in Winery Itineraries

Girls’ Getaway

If your group chat is begging for a real weekend escape—equal parts wine country glamour, laugh-until-you-cry bonding, and “we deserve this” relaxation—Napa Valley delivers every single time. The secret to a perfect girls’ weekend isn’t cramming in 6 tastings a day…it’s choosing a few fabulous, high-impact stops, building in downtime, and letting the trip feel effortless.

Below is a refreshed, three-day Napa Valley girls’ getaway itinerary that blends walkable downtown fun with iconic wineries in St. Helena, Calistoga, Yountville, and Oakville—plus hotel picks that make the whole weekend feel like a treat.

Before You Go: The “Girls Trip” Game Plan

Pick your home base (don’t over-hotel-hop):

  • Option A (easy + social): Stay in Downtown Napa for the most walkable nightlife, tasting rooms, and quick rides to dinner.
  • Option B (splurge + serenity): Split the stay—2 nights downtown Napa, then 1 night up-valley (St. Helena/Calistoga) for that resort reset.

Book tastings early (especially weekends): Many Napa wineries are reservation-first, with limited seating and set start times.

Plan safe transportation: If you’re tasting outside downtown, pre-book a driver or car service. Rideshares exist, but availability can be spotty once you’re up-valley.

Pace it like pros: Aim for 2 wineries/day (maybe 3 max), with water + food in between. Your palate—and your group—will thank you.

Day 1: Downtown Napa Arrival + Walkable Tastings

Check-in: The Westin Verasa Napa

Kick off the weekend with a hotel that makes everything easy. The Westin Verasa Napa is stylish, comfortable, and perfectly placed for a girls’ trip—you can stroll to tasting rooms, dinner, and riverside paths without needing a car.

Girls-trip tip: Drop your bags, throw on something cute-but-comfy, and start with a “welcome toast” moment by the river or pool.

Lunch: Oxbow Public Market

Head straight to Oxbow Public Market—it’s one of the most fun, low-pressure ways to feed a group with different cravings. Grab gourmet bites, coffee, and sweet treats, then picnic-style your way into vacation mode.

Afternoon: Downtown Napa Wine Tasting (No Long Drives Needed)

Keep it easy on day one—your group just arrived, and nobody wants a strict schedule yet.

Tasting stops to consider:

  • Vintner’s Collective – A downtown tasting room featuring multiple boutique producers, perfect when everyone likes something different.
  • Jessup Cellars (Yountville tasting gallery) – Art-meets-wine vibes that feel made for a girls’ weekend.

(If your group wants a third stop, choose something casual and nearby—day one is about ease and energy.)

Dinner: Celadon (Downtown Napa)

Finish the first day with a warm, lively dinner at Celadon, a longtime downtown favorite with a menu that’s fun for groups—shareable plates, bold flavors, and a cozy atmosphere that encourages “one more round” energy.

After-dinner idea: If you’re feeling energized, do a low-key stroll through downtown Napa for dessert or a nightcap. If you’re feeling very energized, you already know what the group chat will vote for.

Day 2: St. Helena + Calistoga (Iconic Napa Valley Scenery Day)

Morning: Resort Dreams at Meadowood Napa Valley (Splurge Option)

If your budget allows (or you’re celebrating something big), Meadowood Napa Valley is the kind of place that feels like you stepped into a movie—quiet, elevated, and deeply relaxing. It’s also a great “one night” splurge if you’re splitting the stay.

If you’re staying downtown Napa instead, enjoy a slow breakfast and drive up-valley mid-morning.

Late Morning Winery: Beringer Vineyards (St. Helena)

Start your up-valley day with a Napa classic: Beringer Vineyards. It’s historic, scenic, and a great introduction to St. Helena’s polished wine-country charm. Book a tour if your group loves a little story with the swirl.

Lunch: Solbar (Calistoga)

Roll into Calistoga for lunch at Solbar at Solage—fresh, stylish, and exactly the kind of place where a long lunch turns into a longer lunch. It’s a perfect reset before the afternoon tastings.

Afternoon Winery Pairing: Choose Your Calistoga Icons

Pick one (or two, if you’re pacing well):

  • Castello di Amorosa – A full-on Tuscan castle experience. Yes, it’s a bit theatrical. Yes, it’s also ridiculously fun and photo-worthy.
  • Sterling Vineyards – Scenic hilltop views plus the signature aerial gondola ride for that “Napa moment.”

Dinner: Farmstead at Long Meadow Ranch (St. Helena)

End the day with farm-to-table comfort at Farmstead at Long Meadow Ranch—a favorite for a reason. Great for groups, great cocktails, and the kind of place where you can recap the day in detail (including the one person who “doesn’t even like Chardonnay” but loved that Chardonnay).

Day 3: Yountville + Oakville (Sparkling Wine + Bucket-List Splurges)

Morning Winery: Chandon (Yountville)

Start your final day with bubbles at Chandon—light, celebratory, and perfect for a girls’ trip “cheers to us” send-off. Book ahead if you want a seated experience; walk-in availability can vary.

Brunch: Bouchon Bakery (Yountville)

Next: Bouchon Bakery, because no one should leave Yountville without at least one iconic pastry moment. Grab coffees, macarons, and something flaky and magical—then wander around town.

Midday: Stroll Yountville + V Marketplace

Spend time exploring Yountville’s charming streets, galleries, and boutiques. Pop by V Marketplace, a historic spot with shops and tasting experiences (hours vary by tenant), and generally excellent “let’s browse for a minute” energy.

Afternoon Winery: Choose Your Oakville “Big Moment”

This is your “dress cute, take photos, sip something spectacular” slot. Choose one:

  • Opus One – Ultra-iconic and highly sought after. Plan early and be aware that reservations can be limited (and group size policies may require advance coordination).
  • Far Niente – Classic Napa elegance, gorgeous property, and a polished tasting experience.

Important update for planners: The Robert Mondavi Winery Oakville estate is currently closed for a major transformation and is slated to reopen in Spring 2026—but you can still enjoy the brand via Arch & Tower, its downtown Napa tasting venue. Robert Mondavi Winery+1

Lunch: Mustards Grill (Rutherford area)

Before (or after) your final tasting, do lunch at Mustards Grill—a beloved Napa institution that’s reliably delicious and group-friendly.

Farewell Dinner (Optional Splurge): The French Laundry

If your group wants the ultimate “we did Napa” finale, make it The French Laundry. It’s still a three-MICHELIN-star experience in the MICHELIN Guide USA (and reservations are famously competitive). MICHELIN Guide

More realistic alternative: If The French Laundry isn’t in the cards, choose a celebratory dinner in Yountville or downtown Napa and end with a toast that includes a promise to do this again.

Mini FAQ for Napa Valley Girls’ Weekends (Because the Group Chat Will Ask)

How many wineries should we do per day?
Two is the sweet spot. Three is doable if you keep everything close and you’re not doing long tours.

Do we need reservations?
For most Napa wineries: yes, especially on weekends. Restaurants too.

Where should we stay for the best girls-trip vibe?
Downtown Napa for walkability and nightlife. St. Helena/Calistoga for resort calm and spa energy.

Conclusion: Cheers to the Perfect Napa Valley Girls’ Weekend

This three-day Napa Valley itinerary is designed to feel elevated—but not exhausting. You’ll sip iconic wines, eat extremely well, and still have time to laugh, relax, and actually enjoy each other (instead of sprinting between reservations like it’s a competitive sport).

Here’s to great friends, great wine, and a weekend you’ll be talking about for years.

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